We had a very interesting New Years Day. With our children visiting their grandparents, we were in a very quiet house. After having brunch, my wife received a troubling WhatsApp from a friend of ours in San Diego. Her husband was scheduled to return to San Diego from Israel. However, the plane had to stop in Toronto because someone had become seriously ill. That person also happened to be from San Diego and we knew that person, his wife, and their family. The person was rushed to the hospital and his wife went with him leaving their children with our other friend and another San Diegocouple (whom we do not know). My wife’s friend tells us the whole story and we learn that her husband and the sick man’s children are in a hotel by the airport with no kosher food. We get her husband’s phone number, make contact and within 90 minutes we have brought several pizzas, salad, and sandwiches. we meet up with our friend. He appeared exhausted, and worried, We hugged, listened to his story and gave him the food. He thanked us over and over and was so appreciative of this act of kindness. We headed home, attended a bris and afterward my wife began to cook. With New Years Day almost finished; there was a San Diego couple in the Emergency Room of a hospital near Toronto’s Pearson airport. So with tins of pasta, soup, salad, some fruit, instant coffee packets, and a USB cord for the wife’s cell phone; we drive to the hospital. We find the sick man’s wife, and she too looks even more tired with physical exhaustion and anxiety than our friend at the hotel. She sees us, we hug and my wife explains the bag's contents. The wife is so relieved, expresses so much gratitude and over and over again expresses amazement at the kindness that she has experienced on what must have been one of the most exhausting and emotionally frightening days of her life.
This week we read from Parsha Va’Eira. This Shabbat we read Parsha Va’Eira. In this Parshah, God reassures Moshe after Pharaoh and mocked and dismissed both he and Aharon. God explains the plan to Moshe that Pharaoh’s heart will be hardened after each plague but eventually, Pharaoh will capitulate. God explains the various stages of redemption. The plagues begin. We are supposed to understand that each of these first seven plagues is more severe than the previous plague: Blood, Frogs, Lice, Wild Beasts, Animal plague, Boils, Hail. Moshe requests that Pharaoh allows B’nai Yisroel to worship God for three days, Pharaoh sometimes acquiesces sometimes he doesn’t. Sometimes he asks Moshe to pray on his behalf and sometimes he doesn’t. One thing is clear, that whenever Pharaoh gets his way (a plague ceases), something that would clearly indicate the power of God, Pharaoh acts almost like a child. He returns to his arrogant self-centered nature. Finally at the very end of the Parsha, after the plague of Hail has devastated the land and killed anything that was outside, Pharaoh expresses the evolution of his belief system.
Two men, Moshe and Pharaoh experience a type of revelation. Each man’s revelation is shaped by who they are, their life experiences and their outlook upon the world. Each leader will experience something very different than what fits their current theological system. Moshe is told by God, “Ani Adoshem VaEira el Avraham El Yitzchak v’ El Yaakov B’Eil Shaddai U’Shmi Adoshem Lo Nodati LaHem – I am Hashem, I appeared to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob as El Shaddai, but with My Name Hashem, I did not make Myself known to them (Ex. 6:2) For Moshe, his revelation assumes questions. Why did you, Hashem, reveal yourself one way to Abraham Isaac and Jacob, and another way to me? God will reveal himself to Moshe through “Signs and Wonders”. V’Yadu Mitzrayim Ki Ani Adoshem, BinToti et Yadi Al Mitzrayim V’Hotzeiti et Bnai Yisroel MiTocham – And Egypt Shall know that I am Hashem, when I stretch out My hand over Egypt; and I shall take the Children of Israel out from among them (Ex. 7:5). With each ensuing plague, Pharaoh and Egypt will experience God. For Pharaoh, the embodiment of a system that did not permit questions, the revelation was much more absolute and stark. That revelation would manifest itself in a series of plagues.
Pharaoh’s world is harsh, he felt threatened by a minority culture and he believed that Egypt was threatened by that same minority culture. As a result, the blood, the frogs, the lice, swarms of wild beasts, livestock disease, boil, hail, locusts, and the death of the first born were perceived as plagues and God was perceived as a harsh judge with little mercy. Moshe had experienced kindness. His mother hid him in the basket, Pharoah’s daughter drew him out of the basket and raised him as her own. After he demonstrated kindness to the slaves by attempting to protect them, he leaves Egypt and demonstrates kindness to Yitro’s daughters. Yitro takes in this stranger as his own son, and eventually, Moses marries Yitro’s daughter Zipporah. Zipporah demonstrates kindness to Moshe when she perceives that his life is endangered because he didn’t circumcise their son in a timely fashion (Ex. 4:24-26). Because Moshe experienced kindness through his life and he demonstrated kindness to others; it only makes sense that God is not so much a harsh judge as God is merciful and kind. Needless to say, when we arrived with food for our stranded friends, their faith was re-affirmed. Despite the difficulties and inconveniences, they were experiencing in a Toronto hospital, they could only see the kindness that people had extended. As for me, I was reminded that we always have opportunities to demonstrate kindness. Some are big and some are small. Some opportunities are obvious and explicit, some are less so. However those opportunities exist, and as much as our friends’ faith was reaffirmed by an act of kindness, being presented an opportunity to spend a day engaging in random acts of kindness re-affirmed my faith as well. Besides, it seemed like a pretty good way to start 2019.
Peace,
Rav Yitz
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