There Is A Road, No Simple Highway Between The Dawn And The Dark Of Night (Robert Hunter & Jerry Garcia- "Ripple")

            As part of our son’s gap year of study in Israel, he is currently spending the week in Poland. While there, he and his cohort, are studying Jewish life in Poland before The War and the destruction of that life during  The Holocaust. His first full day happened to be on the first day of the Hebrew Month Shevat, known as Rosh Chodesh Shevat. It also happened to be the day that he and his cohort spent some time at the Treblinka death camp. There, in the Treblinka, our son and his classmates prayed the Morning Service (davened Shacharit) and read from the Torah because it was the first day of the month. How incredibly spiritually powerful! In the midst of a place that was synonymous with death, a place of darkness and evil,  a place where so many souls were exterminated and then went up in ashes, sacred words of Torah were read, and for a brief moment that place became just a bit more holy.  The light of the Torah words, for a brief moment, shined through the darkness and bleakness of death.  Perhaps, those souls that were consumed by the fires of the crematorium knew just a bit of peace.

           This week's Parsha is Bo.  The ten plagues culminate with locusts, darkness, and finally the killing of the firstborn. On the night of the last plague, God instructs Moshe to tell B'nai Yisroel, to declare and sanctify the New Moon, and to slaughter a lamb for each family. Blood should be painted onto the door- post. The sacrificed lamb must be eaten entirely that night with no leftovers.  The command continues with God instructing Moshe to reiterate this story to the children of each family. The Parsha concludes with the commandment to sanctify the firstborn, remember this night, remember what God did for B'nai Yisroel, and remember that B'nai Yisroel eventually returned to the land.

        Parts of the Parsha are read on Pesach. Those parts dealing with the Paschal sacrifice, as well as the Mitzvah of "Telling" the child about the impending redemption, are read. However, there is one phrase that is particularly interesting and revealing. The ninth plague is Choshech, darkness. VaYomer Adonai el Moshe  N'Teih Yadchah al Hashamayim - And God said to Moshe "Stretch forth your hand toward the heavens,  Va'Yehi Choshech al Eretz Mitzrayim- "And there will be a darkness upon the land of Egypt, Vayameish Choshech - and the darkness will be felt. (Ex. 10:21). What does it mean that the darkness will be felt? What will it feel like? Will it be hot or cold, wet or dry? Maybe it will be thick like some type of fog. Maybe it will be the horrible emptiness as if one is falling through an abyss with nothing all around. Whatever kind of darkness it is, it can be felt. It is noticeable and therefore extraordinarily different than the standard night-time or even an eclipse. B’nai Yisroel still had light in their dwellings while the plague occurred. Pharaoh could not stand the darkness anymore and told Moshe to take everyone including the children and leave if that would alleviate the darkness in Egypt. The Or HaChaim, (18th Century Morocco) reminds us that while there was complete darkness in Egypt, there was light where the Jewish slaves lived: Goshen. U’LeChol B’nai Yisroel Haya Or B’Mishvotam – but for all the Children of Israel there was light in their dwellings (Ex. 10:23). Egypt was already in a state of primordial Darkness, a spiritual darkness without the acknowledgment of God’s presence. As a result, Egypt had become a twisted, closed-minded, corrupt society whose enslavement of B’nai Yisroel was a function of ignorance and fear - a world devoid of the acknowledgment of HaShem. The plague of Choshech, of Darkness, was merely Egypt becoming aware of its darkness. As a result, Pharaoh all but pleaded with Moshe to take the slaves of Egypt. Eliminated the source of Egypt and Pharaoh’s fear, and then the light would return to Egypt.  B’nai Yisroel was already in a state of primordial Light, a spiritual acknowledgment of God’s presence; U’LeChol B’nai Yisroel  Haya Or B’Mishvotam – but for all the Children of Israel there was light in their dwellings. B’nai Yisroel already had a sense of their relationship with God, and a sense of purpose. Moshe had already told them that they would be freed, and they would return to the land that had been promised to their ancestors.

          Each day our son has been in Poland has been a day in which they learned about the darkness that consumed Poland and Europe from 1939-1945. Each day our son has seen the light that existed in Poland prior to the war, the vibrancy of Jewish life, culture, and education prior to the war. With each day, our son and his fellow classmates have come to learn and appreciate how important it is for them to lead lives that bring light and goodness into the world, into the dark places of their respective communities.

Peace,
Rav Yitz

Built To Last Till Sunshine Fails And Darkness Moves On All (Robert Hunter & Jerry Garcia- "Built To Last")

           It has been one year since the world witnessed one of the darkest days of the Noble Experiment that is known as Democracy in The United States.  The January 6th attack upon the U.S. Capitol brought the dark underbelly of human nature, intolerance, and hatred to the surface. A recent Washington Post University of Maryland poll indicated that 34% of Americans think that violence against the U.S. government is acceptable. Along partisan lines, the numbers are even more frightening. Among Independent Voters, that 34% goes up to 41%. Among Republicans that number also goes up to 40%. Among those who identify as Democrats that number decreases to 23%. The “Noble Experiment” appears to be fraying and perhaps coming apart at the seams.  Of course, this Darkness isn’t new. It has existed for as long as human beings organized themselves in tribes, communities, and nations. In 1935, Sinclair Lewis wrote a dystopian novel about the rise of fascism and authoritarianism in the United States entitled It Can’t Happen Here. The premise was that a charismatic politician tapped into the raw populism, anger, and frustration of Americans who were experiencing the drastic changes brought on by the Great Depression. Dissatisfied with any of the current solutions, the electorate turned to “Buzz” Windrip. He promises answers and fast results. Windrip explains that Democracy is too slow a process, too untidy a process to solve these problems, and ever so slowly and meticulously undoes democratic institutions. Earlier this week, Jonathan Greenblatt, the CEO of the Anti-Defamation League (ADL) came out with a new book: It Could Happen Here - Why America Is Tipping From Hate To The Unthinkable and How We Can Stop It. Greenblatt’s grandparents fled Nazi Germany. His wife and her family fled Iran when the Shah was overthrown. Greenblatt explains that there has always been “hate” in the United States. However over the past five years, where once the language and the behavior of hate was usually perpetrated by those out on the “fringe”; now this hatred has become normalized. The Darkness of Intolerance, anti-liberalism, fearmongering, is the standard operating procedure for the carrying out of the “Noble Experiment”. 

          This week's Parsha is Bo.  The ten plagues culminate with locusts, darkness, and finally the killing of the firstborn. On the night of the last plague, God instructs Moshe to tell B'nai Yisroel, to declare and sanctify the New Moon, and to slaughter a lamb for each family. Blood should be painted onto the doorpost. The sacrificed lamb must be completely eaten that night with no leftovers.  The command continues with God instructing Moshe to reiterate this story to the children of each family. The Parsha concludes with the command to sanctify the firstborn, remember this night, remember what God did for B'nai Yisroel, and how B'nai Yisroel eventually returned to the land.

           Parts of the Parsha are read on Pesach. Those parts dealing with the Paschal sacrifice, as well as the Mitzvah of "Telling" the child about the impending redemption, are read. However, there is one phrase that is particularly interesting and revealing. The ninth plague is Choshech, darkness. VaYomer Adonai el Moshe  N'Teih Yadchah al Hashamayim - And God said to Moshe "Stretch forth your hand toward the heavens,  Va'Yehi Choshech al Eretz Mitzrayim- "And there will be a darkness upon the land of Egypt, Vayameish Choshech - and the darkness will be felt. [tangible] (Ex. 10:21). What does it mean that the darkness will be felt? What will it feel like? Will it be hot or cold, wet or dry? Maybe it will thick like some type of fog. Maybe it will be the horrible emptiness as if one is falling through an abyss with nothing all around. Whatever kind of darkness it is, it can be felt. It is noticeable and therefore extraordinarily different than the standard night -time or even an eclipse. B’nai Yisroel still had light in their dwellings while the plague occurred. Pharaoh could not stand the darkness anymore and told Moshe to take everyone including the children and leave if that would alleviate the darkness in Egypt. The Or HaChaim, (18th Century Morocco) reminds us that while there was complete darkness in Egypt, there was light where the Jewish slaves lived: Goshen. U’LeChol B’nai Yisroel Haya Or B’Mishvotam – but for all the Children of Israel there was light in their dwellings (Ex. 10:23). Egypt was already in a state of primordial, spiritual Darkness,  darkness bereft of any acknowledgment of God’s presence. As a result, Egypt became a twisted, closed-minded, corrupt society.  Because of this ignorance and fear,  B’nai Yisroel was enslaved and the world devoid of the acknowledgment of HaShem. The plague of Choshech, of Darkness, was merely Egypt becoming aware of their darkness. As a result, Pharaoh all but pleaded with Moshe to take the slaves out from Egypt. The source of darkness was his fear of Israel and his reason for enslaving Israel (Ex 1:8-10). Only by ridding himself of hatred and fear and by acknowledging God’s presence could the light would return to Egypt.  B’nai Yisroel was already in a state of primordial Light, a spiritual acknowledgment of God’s presence; U’LeChol B’nai Yisroel  Haya Or B’Mishvotam – but for all the Children of Israel there was light in their dwellings. B’nai Yisroel already had a sense of their relationship to God, and a sense of purpose. Moshe had already told them that they would be freed, and they would return to the land that had been promised to their ancestors.

          Greenblatt explains that hate and intolerance must be called out. It must be called out at the water cooler at work and it must be called on social media platforms. Greenblatt also makes it clear that we must be aware of “moral relativism” and “what about-ism”. Historically, the Jewish People have always served as the proverbial “canary in the coal mine” when it comes to a rise in hatred, intolerance of minorities, of conspiracy theories, and a rise in authoritarianism, and fascism. Light must be shined brightly upon language, action, and legislation that peddles in hate, intolerance, and fear. Pharaoh and the Egyptians were paralyzed by the darkness caused by their fear and intolerance. This current plague of Darkness threatens to paralyze Democracy and the democratic institutions of what has  Noble Experiment. If it can happen there, then it can happen anywhere.     

Peace
Rav Yitz  

Now Is The Time Of Returning With Our Thought Jewels Polished And Gleaming (Robert Hunter & Phil Lesh- "The Eleven")

As a parent, as a father, I have a hard time when I am unable to “make it better for my children”. Certainly, there have been times when I have deliberately chosen NOT “to make it better” because I believed that our son or daughters needed to “make it better” him/herself. However, when I am unable to make it better, I feel as if I am failing my child. Well, while the Jewish people ushered in a new month, and the first vestiges of the moon could be seen;  our 17year-old daughter, spent another night staying up late studying for tests, writing papers, and preparing for the standardized test required for college/university admissions in the U.S.   Usually, I am the last one to go sleep and since it was Rosh Chodesh (the New Moon), I took a moment before heading up to bed to look at the first slivers of the new moon. Our daughter came downstairs, and  I turned around. I took one look at her, and I could see her unhappiness, exhaustion, and anxiousness.  I asked if there was anything I could do.  Frustrated, tired and emotionally drained, she began to weep. She looked up and said that there was something I could do. She asked if I could add more hours to the day so that way she can finish her work. I explained that the ability to add more hours to the day is way above my pay grade. I asked if there was anything else I could do. “No”, she replied, “I just need you to give me more time.” I suggested that we can make"time" more special, we can avoid wasting time or we can fool alter our perceptions of the rate by which time passes.

This week's Parsha is Bo.  The ten plagues culminate with locusts, darkness and finally the killing of the firstborn. On the night of the last plague, God instructs Moshe to tell B'nai Yisroel to recognize and observe Rosh Chodesh, the first day of each month. God instructs Moshe to tell B’nai Yisroel to slaughter a lamb for each family. The blood should be painted onto the doorpost. The sacrificed lamb must be completely eaten that night with no leftovers.  The command continues with God instructing Moshe to reiterate this story to the children of each family. The Parsha concludes with the command to sanctify the firstborn, remember this night, remember what God did for B'nai Yisroel, and how B'nai Yisroel eventually returned to the land.

This is perhaps the first Parsha in which God we read of more than one commandment.  Prior to this Parsha, maybe three of the 613 Mitzvot could be derived from all of B’reishit (The Book of Genesis) and the first two Parshiot of Shmot. Now we read both narratives as well as commandments. While the commandment that focuses specifically upon Pesach, the commandments such as Korbonot Shel Pesach (Passover Sacrifice), eating the Passover Sacrifice, completely finish eating the Passover Sacrifice, eating Matzah, removing the leaven, prohibiting the uncircumcised from eating the Passover Sacrifice, the prohibitions of eating leaven and seeing leaven and owning leaven, sanctifying the firstborn, redeeming the firstborn and recounting Yetziat Mitzrayim, the Exodus from Egypt to name a few. However the first Mitzvah, the first commandment that God tells Moshe, Aharon, and B’nai Yisroel does not explicitly focus upon the Exodus but rather upon time and keeping track of time. VaYomer Adoshem el Moshe V’el Aharon B’Eretz Mitzrayim Leimor Hashem said to Moshe and Aharon in the Land of Egypt, saying: HaChodesh HaZeh Lachem Rosh Chodeshim Rishon Hu Lachem L’Chadshei HaShana: This month shall be for you the beginning of the months, it shall be for you the first of the months of the year. (Ex 12:1-2) Certainly, all the Mitzvot that follow this commandment, those that focus specifically upon the Exodus, warrant God’s speaking to Moshe and Aharon.        

From a narrative perspective, it makes sense that the Torah tells us that these commandments were issued while they were still in Egypt; B’nai Yisroel had not yet actually left Egypt but rather making its final preparations. Why is the first commandment issued focused upon counting? This month will be the beginning of months; it will be the first month of the year? How will they know when the next month of begins? Sefer HaChinuch, a 13^th century text written by Pinchas ben Aharon HaLevi of Barcelona clarifies this issue. Sefer HaChinuch (the Book of Education) lists all 613 Mitzvot in order of appearance and corresponding to each Parshah. Also, the author provides a moral and philosophical explanation of each commandment.  Regarding the commandment This month shall be for you the beginning of the months, it shall be for you the first of the months of the year, Sefer HaChinuch says Klomar K’SheTiru CHidosha Shel L’Vana Tikb’u Lachem Rosh Chodesh In other words, when you see the renewal of the moon, you will establish for yourselves the beginning of the month O Afilu Lo Tiruha MiKeivan Shi R’Uyahn L’Heiraot Al Pi HaCHesbon HamKubal – or even if you do not see it, once it is due to be seen according to the accepted reckoning. So the moon’s cycle will serve as the indicator of the beginning and end of a month.  M’SHarshei Mitzvah Zo K’dei Shya’asu Yisroel Moadei HaShem BizMaNaM – At the root of this precept lies the purpose that the Israelites should keep the holy days of the Eternal Lord at their proper times… Before God gives instructions about how to observe the Exodus, these soon to be former slaves must be able to control time, or observe time so that they will know the right time to observe God’s festivals.

            The first step towards freedom is to observe the passage of time, mark the passage of time, and declare the right time to observe time-bound commandments. Until now, the master, Egyptians, told the slaves when to wake up, when to sleep, when to work and when to eat. Now, these former slavers will have to establish their own schedule and keep their own calendar. Of course, this schedule and this calendar must be for a higher purpose. It cannot be a schedule or a calendar in which there is nothing but rather it must be filled with opportunities to engage and celebrate what is to be free; free to serve God.  Yes, my daughter is overtired frustrated, anxious and feels overwhelmed.  In a moment of anxiety, she exclaimed that she didn’t even have time to breathe. In some small way, she understands the most fundamental aspect of slavery. Time belongs to someone else. However, despite the sense that there neither enough time nor that time belongs to another, our 17-year-old daughter appreciates that moment during the week, where time feels as if it belongs to her. Shabbat, with its myriad of restrictions, slows time. As a result, time is recaptured and she can claim her fair share of it.

Peace,

Rav Yitz

One Way Or Another This Darkness Got To Give (Robert Hunter & Jerry Garcia - "New Speedway Boogie"

          Our high school age children resumed school following a two week winter vacation.  During the vacation, they had to complete an assigned book. Our daughter read The Book of Negros, otherwise known as Someone Knows My Name in the United States. Like a good father, I asked my daughter about the book, the main character’s journey and how massive historical events and themes affected her life such as the institution of slavery, the American Revolution, the British retreat to Newfoundland and the migration of numerous black servants and “freed men” to Newfoundland as well as the British Empire’s policy of abolishing slavery from the empire. Needless to say, it was a fascinating discussion and gave her lots of material for the essay she must now begin. Our son read George Orwell’s Animal Farm. Like a good father, I asked my son about the book and the main animal characters in particular I ask him about the character named Napoleon as he is the character that assumes autocratic/dictatorial power of the farm under the guise of helping all the animals. Specifically, I asked him about the process by which he was able to take over a movement that originally was designed to empower all the animals and consolidate that power and control for himself. My son explained that Napoleon played on the fear that the animals  of humans and that he, Napoleon, was the only one who could protect them. Also, he used propaganda, disinformation, and constantly lied so that the truth was always hidden from the animals. By keeping the animals in the dark, by preventing the flow of information and diluting the truth; there was no sense of truth. As a result, the animals never achieved the freedom that they thought they would attain when they rid themselves of Farmer Jones.

          This week's Parsha is Bo.  The ten plagues culminate with locusts, darkness and finally the killing of the first born. On the night of the last plague, God instructs Moshe to tell B'nai Yisroel to slaughter a lamb for each family. The blood should be painted onto the door- post. The sacrificed lamb must be completely eaten that night with no leftovers.  The command continues with God instructing Moshe to reiterate this story to the children of each family. The Parsha concludes with the command to sanctify the first born, remember this night, remember what God did for B'nai Yisroel, and how B'nai Yisroel eventually returned to the land. 

          The second to last plague is Choshech, darkness. Vayomer Adonai El Moshe N'Teih Yadchah Al Hashamayim - And God said to Moshe "Stretch forth your hand toward the heavens , Va'Yehi Choshech Al Eretz Mitzrayim - "And there will be a darkness upon the land of Egypt , Vayameish Choshech - and the darkness will depart. (Ex. 10:21). What does it mean that the darkness will depart? If darkness departs doesn’t that mean light arrives? Typical darkness is merely the absence of light. According to Sforno, the great Italian Renaissance commentator, typical darkness is atmosphere prepared to receive light. After all the moon reflects light into the night, and the stars shine a light as well. Sforno explains that the word VaYameish comes from three letter root M-Oo-Sh : Mem Vav Shin which to feel or touch. The plague of darkness conjures up the image of a person trying to feel their way in the darkness, lost and unable to see immediately in front as if they have their hands outstretched and feeling their way around.  This plague is perhaps the most perfectly designed plague in that it can only affect the Egyptian because they were free. This type of darkness could not affect the Hebrew slaves. Prior to the darkness, the free Egyptians could come and go as they pleased, they were not confined, they had freedom of movement. Obviously slaves do not enjoy freedom of movement. Rather, like a prisoner, the slaves were captive and bound by very physical limits. However with the kind of darkness that leaves one groping and feeling one’s way; the slave will eventually feel his/her way to the boundaries  and be able to very quickly be able to figure out the shape and dimensions of that confined space.

          It is no surprise therefore, that B'nai Yisroel still had light in their dwellings. Why?  The descendants of Jacob the Patriarch, are the beneficiaries of a covenant that God made with Jacob, and a means to avoid groping around in the darkness trying to find their way. They saw the limits, in another words, the slaves saw boundaries in Mitzvot (commandments) and law. They saw the boundaries of time as in the commandment of the New Moon. They saw boundaries in terms of space. Within the confines of their home, they were to eat the Passover sacrifice, answer their children’s questions, and tell them the story of the Passover. B’nai Yisroel would never have darkness because asking questions, and the process by which time is controlled (declaring a New Moon) requires information, truth and the recognition that everyone must adhere to law. My son explained that dictators and autocrats prefer darkness; that way information, and truth is hidden, and laws and the legal process can be turned upside down. He thanked me for the discussion and said he thinks he has enough material to apply the lessons in Animal Farm to current autocrats, dictators and those who wish to emulated autocrats and dictators. Sounds like an interesting essay. 

Peace,

Rav Yitz 

Now, I don't Know But I've Been Told If The Horse Don't Pull, You Got To Carry The Load (Robert Hunter & Jerry Garcia "New Speedway Boogie")

It has been quite a disturbing week. A terrorist attack on a Mosque in Quebec City left people dead and wounded. An executive order that essentially stopped Muslim refugees who have already been vetted by U.S. immigration was prohibited entry in to the United States.  Amid all this troubling news, I had an opportunity to transmit wisdom to my son.  One of the important lessons my grandfather instilled was treat the “little guy” with same decency and respect as the person considered to be important. He understood that we are all connected, we interact with all types of people, so it makes sense to treat everyone fairly and respectfully.  Whether it is the boss or the secretary, the owner of the building or the janitor of the building, the trash collector or the owner of the trash disposal business, it is important to acknowledge and to thank them for their help in making life more convenient. Whether a parent, a family member, a teacher, a coach or a mentor; it is important to acknowledge that our success in life is built upon others investing time in us.  In a sense, we are all part of a team that aids us in our success. This a lesson that my wife and I pass down to our children. They are quite conscientious in thanking people, and acknowledging people. If for nothing else, the lesson imbues in our children the importance of humility and decency. In today’s day and age, these are lessons that we want our children to internalize as well. As our son is well into his Bar Mitzvah preparation; there are moments when he seems to have internalized this lesson. So this past week, my son and I had an opportunity to put this lesson to good use as we fulfilled the Torah’s commandment of the Petteir Chamor – The Redemption of the First Born Male Donkey. Heading down to the Lawrence and Bathurst area, my son and I joined thousands of Jews: : from Bobover Hasidim to Lubavitch Hasidim, old and young, long white beards and clean shaven, black hats and kippot; as we  “redeemed” this first born male donkey in exchange for a lamb.  We listened to Rabbis speak, we watched as a little donkey was led through the crowd and up upon the stage and right behind, someone had the honor of carrying in the lamb. Both animals were bejeweled. The Kohen (the ritual Priest) received the lamb and the donkey was returned to the owner. It is the only time and only opportunity to elevate a non-kosher animal to a level of holiness even if for a brief moment of time.

This week we read from Parsha Bo. The ten plagues culminate with locusts, darkness and finally the killing of the first born. On the night of the last plague, God instructs Moshe to tell B'nai Israel to recognize and observe Rosh Chodesh, the first day of each month. God instructs Moshe to tell B’nai Israel to slaughter a lamb for each family. The blood should be painted onto the door- post. The sacrificed lamb must be completely eaten that night with no leftovers.  The command continues with God instructing Moshe to reiterate this story to the children of each family. The Parsha concludes with the command to sanctify the first born, remember this night, remember what God did for B'nai Israel, and how B'nai Israel eventually returned to the land.

                We might have thought that the sanctification of first born, was aimed at human first born. After all, earlier in the Book of Exodus, we read of Pharaoh’s edict to kill the first born male babies. In this Parsha we read of the 10th plague in which all of Egypt’s first born, humans and animals died on that fateful night. However the commandment to sanctify the first born is not only applicable to children but the firstborn of livestock. The Torah adds V’Chol Petteir Chamor Tifdeh V’seh v’ im Lo Tifdeh V’Arafto VChol B’Chor Adam B’Vanecha Tifdeh – Every first issue donkey, you shall redeem with a lamb or kid (Ex. 13:13) Why the donkey? It is not particularly a noble beast like a horse. Instead the donkey is the “blue collar” animal. The donkey schleps.  According to R’Ovadia Sforno, the 16th century Italian Renaissance commentator, explained that the donkey schlepped B’nai Israel’s material goods out of Egypt. This humble beast of burden schlepped stuff for forty years until B’nai Israel entered Eretz Canaan. By acknowledging the donkey, by saying thanking the donkey, by “redeeming” the donkey, we are elevating it to a level of Kedusha (holiness /sanctity) that other animals are unable to attain.

                When we finally left the Petteir Chamor ceremony, my son and I had a chance to talk about what we had just experienced. Yes we agreed that neither of us had ever been in a crowd such as the one we just left. Yes we agreed that the whole ritual seemed rather odd. As odd as it was watching two animals with jewels being exchanged for each other; we understood the symbol of the Chamor – the Donkey. This very odd ritual reminded us of the humble background of the Jewish People; a background which included slavery.  This very odd ritual also reminds that our freedom is attributed to God’s fulfillment of a covenant and a four legged beast of burden carrying B’nai Israel’s material possessions.  As we drove home, our son also came to the realization that this very odd ritual applied to him as an individual. It dawned on him that many people have and will continue to play a role in the various successes that he will achieve and he owes them all an acknowledgement and a thank you.

Peace,

Rav Yitz