Showing posts with label Weather Report Suite Part II. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Weather Report Suite Part II. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 20, 2020

As Well To Count The Angels Dancing On A Pin (John Barlow & Bob Weir- Weather Report Suit Part II: Let It Grow)

Like davening Shacharit (the Morning Service),  Minchah (the Afternoon Service) and Ma’Ariv (the Evening Service) fulfill my spiritual need for prayer;  there are three new shows, one in the morning, one late afternoon and one late night, that fulfill my need to be informed throughout the day. If I am not able to watch these shows, at the very least, I will listen to them on my phone app. Each of the shows begins the same way. They mention the number of COVID 19 cases throughout the world as well as countries with the largest number of cases and deaths due to COVID. Then after showing and speaking about the world numbers, they update the total number of cases and deaths in the United States.  During the first few weeks, each of these shows just provided data, just the numbers. Then, several weeks ago, the afternoon show began doing something more than just provide numbers and data. The final story of the afternoon news show is dedicated to one or two people who passed away over the previous 24 hours. During these moments we learn about the individual, his/her accomplishments, passions, and loved ones. The idea is to put a face, a life, a context to numbers, and the data. Some are famous, some are what we would call, a “regular, ordinary person”.  

This Shabbat we begin the fourth book of the Torah, Sefer Bemidbar, by reading the first ParshaBemidbar. Literally meaning “In the Wilderness”, this fourth book of the Torah resumes the narrative format with B'nai Yisroel making preparations to embark on its journey from Mount Sinai to Eretz Canaan. For the past year, B'nai Yisroel camped out at Har Sinai and listened to Moshe and Aharon teach all the laws concerning Tamei/Tahor –Purity and Impurity, Kodesh and Chol – the Holy and the Mundane, as well as the laws for Korbonot, sacrificial offerings. Before B'nai Yisroel embarks on the remainder of its journey, a census is required. In fact, Parsha Bemidbar consists of three types of a census. The first census counts all men over the age of twenty that come from all the tribes except for the Levites. The second census focuses only upon the Levites. Since the Levi tribe's sole function is to operate and manage the Mishkan, ascertaining the number of workers in the Mishkan suggests the importance of the Mishkan to the everyday life of the B'nai Yisroel. The third census focuses on the organizational placement of each tribe around the Mishkan while traveling. 

The Census that God commands Moshe at the beginning of this fourth book of the Torah is very different than the last census taken. Until now, there had been one Census taken while Bnai Yisroel remained at Sinai and constructed the Mishkan. All the way back in Parsha Ki Tissa, in Sefer Shmot (the Book of Exodus) God had commanded Moshe to count everyone by levying a half-shekel tax. In fact, we are commanded not to count by pointing and counting but rather we would count the number of ½ Shekels collected and that number would then tell us the total number of men twenty years and older. Now God commandsMoshe:  S’u EtRosh Kol Adat Bnai Yisroel L’Mishpechotam L’Veit Avotam Mispar Sheimot  Kol Zachar L’GulgulotamMiben Esrim Shana Va’Malah Kol Yotzei Tzavah B’Yisroel Tifkedu Otam….- Take a census of the entire assembly of the Children of Israel according to their families, according to their father’s household, by the number of the names and every male according to their headcount; from twenty years of age an up everyone who goes out to the legion in Israel, you shall count them (Num. 1:2-3)…. Abravanel, the 15th-century Portuguese commentator points out the apparent contradiction in the two types of census:  the first being found in the Sefer Shmot, and the second in Parsha Bemidbar. “Surely this (Bemidbar) is just the opposite of what the Torah had commanded on an earlier occasion (Sefer Shmot Parsha Ki Tissa).” There is Ki Tissah, they poll (a tax) was taken.  “How could the Almighty have commanded them here to number them by their polls?” Abravanel notes the word “Tifekedu Otam” – you shall “account for them” (according to Rashi, “accounting” is a Poll or a levied tax).  Ramban, the 12th-century Spanish commentator and philosopher, points out that Tifkedu expresses visitation, remembrance, and providence.   
   
          Something has happened during these ten weeks of the pandemic. In the beginning, we heard about numbers: number of cases, number on respirators, number of deaths. We watched and listened as those numbers grew and we watched and listened as those numbers were plotted on a graph and we could visualize “going up a curve” and “going down a curve”.  At first, the numbers grew so rapidly, and the pictures from Italy, from Spain, and from New York were jarring.  Now, we have adapted, we have grown accustomed to these number of cases and deaths. During these past few months, the need to count cases and deaths has remained important although the side effect has been an increase in callousness, an increase in de-personalizing the tragedy, and a diminishment of context and PaKaD, accounting.  The conclusion of these news shows puts these numbers and data into a context, an individual’s life.   I think it was a couple of weeks ago, (who can be certain) when the death toll in the United States was at 55,000, that each news show reminded the viewers that the death toll due to Covid19 during these past several months had surpassed 11 years of fighting in the Viet Nam War.  Suddenly, on that particular day, those deaths had a context, those lives had received an accounting and a perspective.  Not only do I look forward to my news shows; I feel compelled to watch or listen to the final minutes and learn about a life well lived so that an individual’s life can be accounted for as well as counted. 

Peace, 
Rav Yitz 

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

She Kneels Down To Gather Her Water (John Barlow & Bob Weir- 'Weather Report Suite Part II - Let it Grow")



          A friend of mine and I were talking about our eldest children. We both have daughters in their early twenties. Both of our daughters are very dedicated to their careers and graduate school. Neither one has the time to invest in a serious relationship and neither one is looking to get married. They both explain to us that they will worry about marriage in a few years, after graduate school, or when they feel that they have progressed far enough in their respective careers. As parents my friend and I would love to see our daughters meet someone and get married. Also, we take a deep sigh of relief knowing that as each of our daughters continue to mature, grow comfortable with who they are, and what is important to them, we hope that they will exercise good judgment when it comes time to make such an important decision. My friend and I make no bones about it, we hope that they will marry someone Jewish. We also hope that our daughters will marry someone that brings out the best qualities in our daughters, someone who is smart, kind, decent, and with similar values as our daughters. So instead of asking each of our daughters if she is dating someone; we ask if they go to shul, if they participate in their synagogues’ social programs. We ask them, we bother them and we probably annoy them, but they understand what we think is important. Ultimately however, they are on their own, and they have to make their own decisions.

          However, in this week's Parsha, we learn how to evaluate a person’s character. We learn how judge. This week's Parsha is Chayei Sarah. The Parsha begins with the recounting the years of Sarah's life, Avraham's mourning for his wife, purchasing the land for Sarah's burial and then burying her. Avraham then tells his servant that he does not want his son, Yitzchak, marrying a Canaanite woman. Instead, the servant must return to Avraham's hometown and look for a woman from Avraham's family/ tribe. The servant wants to know how to determine which girl is the right girl for his Master's son. Avraham answers that the girl that returns with the servant is the right girl. Armed with treasures, camels and plenty of wealth for a dowry the servant sets off and decides that the best place to find a girl is by the local well. There the servant decides that the "right" girl is the girl who would offer him water, as well as offer his camels’ water. Sure enough, Rebecca arrives at the well and fulfills the servant's standard. The servant returns with Rebecca to her family, convinces the family to let her go, and Rebecca is asked if she wants to return with the servant. Rebecca unhesitatingly responds with a yes. Now Rebecca has fulfilled the servant's requirement as well as Avraham's requirement. Upon her arrival at her new home, she sees her betrothed, and, not knowing who he was, asked the servant. The servant told her and she covered herself. Rebecca and Yitzchak are married. The Parsha concludes with Yitzchak and Ishmael burying their father, and the genealogy of Ishmael's family.
           
The story of the Yitzchak and Rebecca is one of the more unique stories in Torah. It is not a story of love at first sight. Rather the narrative has very little to do with love and has everything to do with qualities of another person, not the feeling generated by another person.  The qualities that the servant deems to be vital for his master, Avraham, and his Master’s son, Yitzchak are not based upon emotion. Instead the qualities are based upon character of the girl herself, and the narrative mentions that quality three times. The first mention occurs when the servant prays to God that a girl offers water to him and his camels. Vayomer Adonai Elohei Adoni Avraham Hakrei Nah Lfanai Hayom V'Asei Chesed Im Adoni Avraham - And he said, " Lord, God of my master Avraham, may you so arrange it for me this day that you do kindness with my master Abraham, See, I stand here by the spring of water and the daughters of the townsmen come out to draw. Let it be that the maiden to whom I shall say 'Please tip over your jug so I may drink', and who replies, 'Drink, and I will even water your camels,'…. (Gen 24:12-14) The second telling of this story is when it actually occurs. (Gen 24:15-21) The third telling of the story occurs when the servant tells it for the first time to Rebecca's family (Gen.24:42-46). These events must be significant if Torah tells us the events in three different contexts, all of which are in the same chapter.

            We all have standards of what attracted us to our husbands and wives. We all have standards of what attracted us to a person as a friend, as a client or even as a congregant and Rabbi. Torah is teaching us one vital thing. The standard is not looks. The standard is not brains. The standard is not family background, nor comportment. The Torah’s standard is to see people and evaluate their behavior. Is the person a mentsche? Are they decent? Are they compassionate? Do they perform acts of Gemilut Chasadim (Acts of Loving Kindness)?  This is the person you want for a mate, a friend, a confidant, and yes, even a Rabbi. We all have standards and requirements that allow us to make judgments. We should never allow superficial qualities  to be the basis for those judgments. God does not judge us in such a fashion. Nor should we judge others in a superficial fashion based entirely upon emotions. Emotions come and go. But the content of a person’s character should remain constant.

Peace,
Rav Yitz